I feel like there's nothing left in life to be happy about. I literally have nothing to do with myself anymore. Can you give me some ideas? - Anonymous

Hey :D 

First of all, don’t give up. There was a point in my life where I felt what you are describing. I didn’t see the purpose in life. I couldn’t get a girlfriend. I couldn’t succeed in anything. I felt alone. However, I got by. I think it might help you if you try some of the things I suggest. Well, try finding some type of hobby or game that you have never played before. It can be anything. Sports or video games. I chose an online game that I had never played before. I would spend all of my time on it when I was home. On top of that, during the day, I would explore the city I live in for anything that appealed to me. I lived day by day. I woke up in the morning not knowing what the day had in store for me. It’s funny because, you find out a lot about yourself when you are lost. Find yourself :)

It took me awhile to get out of this period, but I did it. I began coaching a YMCA volleyball team. And, I joined my police department’s cadet program :) Just find things that appeal to you! I hope I helped! let me know how everything goes.

thank you so much for your advice. :) im fine here too. and my life with my boyfriend is much better. now,i dont care about my first love. seems like im forgetting him. good thing! :D thank you so much adam. if i got other problems,i'll make you in trouble again by giving me good advices okay? ;D lol. thanks again!

ps: im the one that asks anonymously but now, im revealing myself. :D - dyedott-deactivated20110108

sure no problem :) and you’re welcome :)! sure, lemme know when ever you need help! i’m here for ya!