i could have sworn it was like, common sense that you’re not supposed to hook-up or go out with your best friend’s exes?. my best friend has hooked up with about half the people i've gone out with. the first guy was my first love. i've known him for like 8 years & we had a relationship for over a year, & we even lost our virginities to each other.. she hooked up with him, even though she knows i still have feelings for him. she kept it as a secret for two weeks until he told me, after him & i hooked up. after that, i thought she got the idea i didn’t like that after we had a huge argument. then a few people over, it was a guy i dated for like 4 months. she said she got drunk, & then hooked up with him & started dating him. her excuse was that she was drunk, but in my book that's no excuse because she was only tipsy. now, it's a guy that i had a relationship with last summer..they've been dating on the low for two weeks now. everyone knew but me. this morning she had the nerve to ask me if it’s okay. i told her it doesn't matter what i say because she'd do it regardless, and asked her why she's all over my exes. she told me she'll just stop being so sexy so they won't come to her. like, what kind of answer is that !? she has like 5 guys drooling over her all the time, but she just chooses the ones that i dated. i asked my other friends what i should do, & they all agreed i should just cut her off, because she's not a very good friend at all. but it's hard for me to do that.. what should i do? - Anonymous

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Ok well, I read your entire writing. First of all I don’t think it’s right for someone to do that to another person, especially a best friend. If I remember correctly, dating a best friend’s ex is like off limits or something…Anyways, I don’t think it’s right. I would be really pissed off if my friend dated my first love… If your friends are telling you this, do you think they’re just making it up? They see what she’s doing to you, and they care. That’s why they’re speaking up. Do you see your other friend being that kind? no…. i think you should sit her down, and give her a firm talk. Tell her straight up you don’t like what she’s doing, and that’s why you are not going to talk to her until she changes. It’s a very bold move, but I think it will work :D Hope I helped!