hey adam :) how are you? just dropping by hoping you could help me with this problem. well, till now i cant forget my first love. i've tried everything in my power to get him out of my life. i even threw all the things he gave me. but yet, still kept remembering him. im afraid to go talk to him cause im afraid he dont care about me anymore. he seems forgetting me and not wanting me to be in his life again. thats why i dont have the guts to go to him. he left me after a year and five months of our relationship. i dont know what else he wants from me. he left me with no reasons. he just said that is was good if he was single. after a while we broke up, he coupled with another girl. that really breaks my heart. i just wish i could kill him. i totally hate him for that. but,why do mind kept remembering him. for your information, i got a new boyfriend too after 5 months of not wanting to be with any other guys. but this one boy really attracts me. and he manage to steal my heart. im in love again. and i know he's the one for me. because im his first love. can you help me to find a way to forget my first love? i dont want to hurt my boyfriend's feelings like the way my first love did to me. he's really nice and very loyal. i dont want to break his heart. and i do love him very much. more than how i used to love my first love. im confused. i hope you can help me. :) - Anonymous

hey there :D i am good and yourself!?

you are really great person! i can tell from the way you think.. 

Unfortunately, we can’t forget our first loves. They stay with you forever. My first love, Veronica. She broke if off…and it’s not the same between us anymore :( I still have feelings for her…Still, there are ways for us to cope. The more you try to forget, the more it’ll stick with you…However it does lessen after some time. Just give it time :D Your feelings for your ex with come and go when you are reminded by seeing him, looking at a photo, etc. Just remember that it didn’t work out, so there’s no point in beating yourself up over it. Try using your first love as a tool. Learn from the mistakes both of you made, and grow. My best advice is to not forget about your first love. Accept it, and don’t let it interfere in your life. Know that your current boyfriend is way better than your first love.. Also, I would recommend not talking to your first love for awhile…Otherwise, it might cause some problems. Hope I helped :D